How To Make Good Decisions?

Assalamu’alaikum everyone!
Dear Readers and my lovely friends,
In this post, I’ll give you a question, How to make good decision in our lives?
It’s about everything. Really, I need your views. Please put your answers here. You may answer based Qur’an, science and your own experiences. I’d love to hear it from you, dear friends! ๐Ÿ’ž
Thank you very much for your advices!
Jazakillah khoir! ๐Ÿ˜Š

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12 thoughts on “How To Make Good Decisions?”

  1. Good decisions are hard to make but if you want my advice this is what i do: I ask myself would my mother want me doing this? Would Allah want me to do this? With those questions in my head i tend to make decisions that i do not regret. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  2. Assalamu alaikom sister,

    You can always pray Istikhara and ask wise and experienced people for guidance.

    The issue that you might be trying to make a decision for could be a problem or an opportunity. Based on that you could also follow these steps (in addition to the Istikhara and consultation from experienced people):

    1. Define and clarify the problem/opportunity (where, why, when, how, and with whom it is happening).
    2. Try to look for the potential causes of this problem/opportunity (write down the causes you think are affecting your problem/opportunity, ask others for input, etc).
    3. Identify a list of alternatives to approach this problem/opportunity (brainstorm for solutions, ask others for ideas, etc).
    4. Select one of the approaches on your list considering which approach is the most likely to solve the problem/opportunity and which is the most realistic (affordable, available resources, enough time to implement, etc).
    5. Put an action plan to implement the approach you chose (what resources will you need, how much time will it take, what steps will be required, who will be carrying out this plan, etc).
    6. Monitor the implementation of your plan (are you seeing the expected results, is there any deviation from the plan, will the plan be finished on time, etc).
    7. Verify whether the problem/opportunity was resolved or not (if it wasnโ€™t resolved, try choosing another approach from the list of alternatives you created in step 3 and repeat steps 4, 5, and 6 until the issue is resolved).

    I hope you benefit from my suggestion. ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. Wa’alaikumussalam my sister ๐Ÿ˜Š
      Masha’Allah, Allahu Akbar, your suggestion is great! I really love n appreciate it, my sister. Jazakillah khoirul jazaa to your suggestion. I’ll do the ways, for sure. You are all heart, Sister! ๐Ÿ’— Barakallahu fiiki! Ameen.

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